Pilot

I had wanted to make a blog for myself quite a few months ago to just jot down my thoughts, but never got around to doing it.  It took me a while but here it finally is.

A lot has happened over the year since I got back from Japan.  I decided to switch my major over from nursing to finance.  We had to put Sophie the cat down in February because she was getting too sick.  I started trying the online dating websites and so far have failed miserably.

Sometimes I think I should have stayed another year in Japan.  After figuring out that I was not cut out for nursing and instead went to a finance degree that I started doing at an online school, it seems like an even more logical choice.  If I had known, I probably would have.  I could have saved a lot more money also.  I could have done more traveling, maybe visit Grace?

I started going back to work for Reside.  It's fine for now but if I happen to find something better I will be gone as quick as I can be.

Newgen is getting married on the 19th this month and Cedrec just proposed to Rin less than a month ago.  I'm the only one of my friends who is still living at the same place as I was when I graduated high school.  Everyone is moving on with their lives and looking forward to the future.  I'm happy for them.  I miss the eating out most nights and gaming nights with Pierre back in Japan.  I miss the days where I had people to hang out with.  Over the past few years people have become too busy to hang out which makes me sad.  I also feel like there is something about my personality that people don't like, but I don't know what it is.  I want to be better.  If I had a girlfriend I could be fine with that, but honestly, as long as I'm living at my parents' house, getting a girlfriend doesn't seem likely.  Time to move out!

Hoping my mindset gets better in the coming months.  What a depressing first entry ha!

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