Lonely

I feel like a broken record whenever I make a post on here because it's always about the same thing. Dating life has been crappy as usual.  Even my dreams have been cruel to me.  The majority of my dreams are about a girl who likes me.  Things start going well, and then I wake up. A few years ago, I had a friend tell me that he believed he and I would be single for the rest of our lives. He told me this as it had been a good year or two since he had a girlfriend. I told him that would not be true for him but I'm pretty sure I would be for me. Fast forward two years later and he has an awesome girlfriend of course.  I like myself, I'm just sad that no one else seems to. I have to stick around because my parents would be devastated if I didn't, but once they are gone, if I am still single, I will probably start eating a bunch of food that I enjoy instead of watching my cholesterol. I will start enjoying a lot more whiskey and other such beverages. Basically, an attempt to get me off this earth in a socially acceptable way. I am so lonely that it interferes with my life. I have hobbies and other things, but even so, I don't enjoy life.

My friend got married almost two months ago. He's got a baby on the way with a girl he has barely known a year. It's a dumb move honestly, but I hope it works out for them. It is really somber that the only real update I have after half a year is not about myself.

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